.Monday, July 13, 2009 ' 9:07 PM
Like Or NOT?!
How do you distinguish the feelings of when you truly have feelings for someone or you just have a fling/crush on someone? What is the difference? How different is the feeling? Yes it is very easy for one to like another person.. But does it mean anything? I like alot of people, my girlfriends, guy friends, certain classmates and many more.. but HOW do you know that you like this ONE person more than the rest? What makes you know? I am confused..
I think the problem faced now is not if i do like the person or not.. It is more of a what is the other person thinking? We girls often ask the question does he like me, what does he think of me and bla bla bla.. Often enough we get the same answers from our friends which is ... yess of course laa... But then comes the question, how do other people know? What do they see that we don't? How can they be so positively sure about their answer?
I believe the solution to the problem that I have is instead of falling or admiting that I like the other person based on their appearance and say 'OMG, I like him! He is so super cute!' is to find that one person that i would truly like and learn to love once i get to know them.. Not some puppy love that I have been having quite alot actually.. But the question is where would I meet him.. More importantly How? When?
Friends always say one day he will come.. Let him come.. But I am not getting younger by the minute.. AND I can't help but envy my friends whom have found their other half! I wish u guys all the best!
Anyways, enough of this now.. BACK TO STUDYING!!!!
